Wednesday, February 16, 2011

A rant...

you dont need to invite every ridiculous screw-up into your life just in order to be a good and non judgmental person... It is good to give people second chances but there are some cases where people dont deserve a first chance, AND THAT IS OK.  There are other, kind, people in the world more apt to take care of the people who are not capable of causing anything but pain and frustration. At what point are we able to have a clear conscience knowing that we trusted, we cared, we tried...again and again, and still we are burned. It IS ok to give up on someone...and if that doesn't sit well with you, then don't think of it as giving up, think of it as giving it to someone else.  It is only as I've gotten older that I have come to this cruel realization....NOT everyone IS worth your time, effort, or heart.



*This really doesn't affect me DIRECTLY, I've just noticed through friends and family that it was something that needed to be said.....sorry for the rant, I had to be able to say this somewhere and no one reads this :)

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I love this little Dennis Miller coming out of you, it is refreshing, & I like it! I love you!

Anonymous said...

You seem like very insightful person.. Although I do agree with you, I'd like to play devils advocate if you don't mind.. I'm not sure how often you update\check your blog, so I'll leave it at that and respond when you do..

Powerful stuff..

Haley said...

I am far from an insightful person but I do have my moments of nearly unbarable reality...but there are luckily two sides to every conversation and I am always open minded so feel free to play devils advocate! :)

Anonymous said...

1- I read this! and 2 I envy that you nanny two kids!!! and and envy them as much as I envy you:) Amanda Monk

Anonymous said...

By the way I was right and I agree with your post
Your welcome for the poker chips